If you’re consistently calling, texting, emailing, and doing all the asking out, a man won’t have to lift a finger. This is not to say that you can’t ever reach out to a man you’re dating, but let him do the asking out–at least in the early stages. You deserve someone who wants to reach out to you, call you, and ask you out.If you’re both interested in each other, there will be a natural balance in the amount of communication. As scary as it may seem to talk to your man about not seeing other people, it’s even scarier to just assume he isn’t seeing other people. As easy as it would be to base every opinion you have on an experience you had with a guy or listen to your best guy friend’s advice, not all men are the same.Without giving up on their loved ones, they fight back; but this often leads to more stress and even more relationship imbalance.You see men aren’t schooled in this department of life.We spend years going to grammar school and learning about math, science, history, and multitudes of other important topics, but we never really learn the most important one of all, relationships.Whether it’s the wooing stage, as in dating and attracting women, or the later stage, as in building incredible connections and experienecs together, nobody ever really teaches us the intricacies of a healthy relationship. As a dating and lifestyle coach I’ve gathered some of my best friends and colleagues in the world to share with you the best relationship advice for men out there!
Even if a guy is relationship ready, if you bring up on date three that you’re ready for a relationship he’ll likely question whether you really want to be in a relationship with HIM or if you’re ready for a relationship with anyone.Guys are often left shaking their heads in pure bewilderment when it comes to different aspects of their relationship.Their wives, girlfriends, or partners of some sort or another, just seem to constantly throw curveball after curveball at them, and their left wondering what to do.If you want to show a man that you’re girlfriend material, don’t hook up with him on the first date.It will probably make him wonder if you would do the very same thing with every other Tom, Dick and Harry.
Either way, it’s important to acknowledge the things that make your significant other feel insecure by making conscious decisions that affect the relationship.