I thought that my wife, Monica, and I got married because we were things: "Hey, how was work today?
They want to feel the kind of security that can only ever come with knowing her partner is both aware and proactive when it comes to sustaining a life together. Nothing, and I mean nothing, can ever erase the things you say to another human being. It was my main line of defense when my wife and I battled over this little thing or that. You think you'd actually dig having ESPN blaring all the time in that little one-bedroom apartment where you'll end up when the marriage falls apart.As a single person using online dating sites, you face many challenges, and the sites cannot solve them. The matching algorithm based on explicit user data.The reason why OKCupid's "math-based" matching algorithm — and that of any other dating site that provides a compatibility score based on the users' explicit answers to questions — is flawed is because the data they collect is .I still have sex pretty regularly and that's more than most of the guys at work can say, huh? But I must confess: the sex in my marriage was almost always about me. I wasn't some sweaty, drunk college linebacker trying to date-rape my wife.But year after year, even though she was fairly articulate and open about trying to tell me things that "worked" for her, or "didn't work," I never got it ... In fact, sometimes I interpreted her intimate act of honest trust and confidence as her telling me I was doing it wrong.
But if you DO have that certain chip in you that sometimes kicks in when you're overwhelmed, hurt, outmatched, or drunk, get help however you can.